The Puzzle Piece

 A few weeks ago, Solon and I returned from a vacation. It was the first time Solon had been so far from home. While he handled the trip well, for the most part, I could tell he was extremely anxious about something, or many things. This prompted me to do some research on anxiety, the different types there are and how it can affect those with autism.  Phobias As most of us know, a phobia is an intense and irrational fear of something that usually poses no actual danger. In autism, phobias can stem from being overly stimulated or overwhelmed. Loud noises, vacuums and other unexpected or uncomfortable noises can often cause anxiety. Likewise, normal childhood fears such as darkness or bugs can also be present and brought on by phobias.  In our home, Solon is afraid of just about everything. Age has taught him how to handle it better to a certain degree. There are other phobias he has that he has not been able to take control of. While on vacation, Solon didn't want to get o...

 Summertime has finally arrived! With it comes a flurry of fun and memorable activities such as swimming pools and barbeques. This year, we have the opportunity to take a short vacation. So, we are taking a short road trip to relax for a few days. Solon has never been very far from home, and this will be the first time he's ever left the state. In preparation for our trip, I started researching tips on how to help an autistic child travel. Whether we are flying or driving, it's a good idea to be ready for anything and capable of handling any situation that may arise. Here are a few tips I have found.  Mark the Day on your Calendar Many children are visual learners and can more easily relate with something they can see. Calendars are a good way to show your child when you are leaving and start counting down to that day. This gives a visual picture of when you are due to head off on your adventure. It's also a great way to start a new countdown for when you go back home.  I...

 As parents of autistic or special needs children, we are all familiar with the feelings of doubt or guilt that might be associated with your child's diagnosis. We all have our own unique stories to share about what happened when we discovered our child had special needs and I thought it might be helpful to share some of those stories. Some time ago, I asked for some parents to come forward if they were willing and share what happened when they found their child was autistic. Two very wonderful women responded and have given me permission to share their stories and I will share my own personal experience as well. As always, feel free to comment if you have any thoughts to include or if you would like to share your own personal story. I am interested and intrigued to discover all the many way different ways of handling an autistic diagnosis.  Nancy Nancy has a son who is on the spectrum. She said that she couldn't help but compare him to his sixteen month older sister and notic...

 If you are like me, there must have been some apprehension upon finding your child was diagnosed with autism. There were many questions that went through my head. How do I help my child? Will my child ever be able to function as an independent adult? Will I always have to care for my child? These questions can be daunting and concerning. Since we already know that the spectrum for autism is so expansive, I thought it might be helpful to discuss some successful individuals who are on the spectrum.  Amadeus Mozart Mozart was an Austrian composer born January 27, 1756 and was probably the most prolific composer of the classical period. He was a child prodigy with music, possessing a perfect musical memory and an amazing gift for reading music. Mozart was so sensitive to sound that loud noises could make him feel physically sick.  Mozart suffered from multiple social disorders. He had problems with self control and oftentimes engaged in dangerous behavior. Even his music dem...

It's Autism Awareness Month! And you know what that means! It's time to pull out everything blue and get those creative juices flowing on ways that you can help spread awareness about autism and advocate! In the past, Solon and I have had some creative ideas on how to support the autistic community. Here are a few ways you can show your support to the autistic people you care most about.  The Color Blue As many of you know, blue is the color that has been adopted to represent autism. Showing off your blue clothing is one way to go to show off your passion toward autism. Every year, stores display t shirts with some clever or touching saying about autism. Wearing blue during the month of April is an easy way help do your part to spread awareness.  In the past, Solon and I have dyed our hair blue. Dying my hair was my idea, however Solon expressed his interest in putting the color in his own hair to show off at school. I had my doubts about putting the dye in Solon's hair. Ba...

Disclaimer  The purpose of this blog is to create a safe space to discuss your different ideas and thoughts about autism. The intent is not meant to replace the relationship between your autistic child and healthcare provider. If you suspect your autistic child, relative or friend is in danger, contact your local authorities.  This is a safe place for you to ask questions or offer your suggestions to others. This is not a place to start debates or arguments. You may express your opinions on a topic; however, always be respectful when speaking with one another. This blog is to offer support. Harassment or bullying of any kind will not be permitted here. If you have any comments or questions, please feel free to mention them in the comments below. I will do my best to answer any questions and offer helpful suggestions. Welcome to The Puzzle Piece Hello! My name is Jen and I have been dealing with autism for 13 years. My son, Solon, was diagnosed with autism at age 5 and is now g...